Why are friendships so important for my health?
The Five Pillars of a Better Life (Part Five): Stay Connected Looking after ourselves was never meant to be something we do entirely by ourselves. When I first thought about this series, there were only four pillars. Eat well. Move more. Make time to reflect. Sleep well. It seemed a pretty good recipe for looking after ourselves. Then I realised something rather important was missing. Other people. We can eat perfectly, exercise every morning, meditate every evening and sleep for eight glorious hours, but human beings are, whether we like it or not, social creatures. Most of us need to love, talk, laugh, argue, share, help, touch and simply be around other people. So my fifth and final pillar of a better life is social connection . The fact that it should have been there all along is a reflection of one my personal flaws: I think I can get by on my own. Wrong. Relationships Are Good for Our Health Friendship can sometimes sound like one of life's optional extras, or, if we...