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Why you should dump Apple and Windows and move to Linux

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Moving to Linux With No Regrets Why my computer now feels faster, calmer and more mine After nearly thirty years of using mainstream computers — first Windows, then nineteen years with Apple — I have finally moved to Linux. Not just to experiment. Not just on an old spare machine. Properly.  And I have no regrets. Part of the decision was practical. Part of it was ethical. I have become increasingly uneasy about handing so much of my digital life to a few giant technology companies, especially when privacy, politics and personal values feel more connected than ever. So I wanted something different.  Linux has given me that. It Feels Fast Again The first thing I noticed was speed. My computer feels lighter, quicker and more responsive. Apps open quickly. The system starts cleanly. Nothing feels as if it is dragging a heavy suitcase behind it. Linux does not constantly try to sell me something, push me into a subscription, or run mysterious extras in the background. I...

What to do when our parenting goes wrong

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The Family: Where Human Flourishing Begins We live in an age inclined to treat the family as merely one lifestyle choice among many: important perhaps, but ultimately interchangeable with any arrangement sufficiently loving and well-intentioned. Yet history, psychology and ordinary human experience suggest otherwise. Before the state, before schools, before therapists and welfare systems, there was the family. It is there that a child first learns whether the world is safe; whether love is conditional; whether conflict destroys or can be survived; whether authority protects or humiliates; whether they themselves are fundamentally secure and wanted. Long before formal education begins, the family has already taught its curriculum. Why Family Matters Healthy family life gives a child the internal structure from which adulthood is built: security, attachment, discipline, resilience, self-worth, emotional regulation, and a workable model of intimacy. No family can guarantee psych...